You are always living a reflection of whatever you’re outputting. And so, if you get into a little pocket where a lot of people are being rude, it’s probably because you are being rude – or because you have been aware of people being rude. Nothing ever happens to you that is not part of your vibration.
Before we incarnated onto this earth plane, we deliberately chose the experiences we wanted from a smorgasboard of choices. And a lot of the time they are situations, people posing questions, which we haven’t dealt with before, so that we can figure out the hows and learn from them.
But in the learning and the wanting to figure out the hows, the universe decides to push our buttons by sending us teachers. That’s right, lovelies. These frenemies are our teachers. They are unassembled puzzle pieces within us, which we, in our unawakened state, are focusing on. So the universe reflects our outer world back to us, sending us those people and situations which mirror our inner reality.
For example, in my office job at work I was getting annoyed at people coming up to me with inane, idiotic questions. I thought to myself OMG, what is going on? And then in the next instant I unconsciously caught myself subvocalizing “gosh, I’m dumb” after I made a mistake. That there was a lesson in awareness. The universe was telling me that I needed to heed my self-talk as it was starting to vibrate outwards and attracting people I didn’t desire.
Another example. I’m currently working on attracting more abundance and specifically paid energy healing gigs. I’m exploring all of my long forgotten money memories and uncovering those beliefs which were showing up as a feeling of lack in my outer reality. I’ve been meditating and repeating affirmations. I’ve been EFT tapping the shit out of my old belief systems. Yesterday, the universe sent me a test. I lost my iPhone during the lunch hour. I went to the concierge desk at the shopping centre where I had lunch. I went to this shop where I bought a wallet, lol. Nope, not there. So I got back to my desk, called up my telco customer service, suspended my sim and ordered a new sim card on the spot. I then walked across the road to the Apple store and got a new iPhone. I was action stations all the way, thinking the phone is gone. Half an hour later, the phone appeared, I had left it near another desk and in my befuddlement, forgot about it. Ha ha ha. So on the way home, I walked back into the Apple store, returned the new phone and asked for a refund. They said yes and were even whooping with joy that my phone came back.
All through that ordeal, not once did I feel the energy of lack. In fact I thought, oh well, its just a phone, I have enough dosh to replace it and I can absorb the costs. When I got home, I found a five dollar note tucked into a random book. The universe was testing me. I passed and got rewarded. Woohoo!
Then ten minutes later my husband was whingeing at me for forking over a thousand bucks for a new iPhone. I felt myself being irked by this. Hmmm, I still have some more money dragons to slay and more tapping to do. Obviously.
The lessons we came to learn and the experiences we’re here to savour, they’re all beneficial and designed for our betterment. The frenemies and those annoying situations are our greatest teachers. Ponder on them. Ask for the guidance to be revealed. Accept them. Lean into them. Embrace them. Love them. Express your gratitude. Once we are able to do this, resistance and tension dissolves….and the gems of wisdom start pouring in from the universe. They become part of your inner knowing and start to infuse your being.
After a while you forget what it was that used to annoy you, because you love that friend so much now that you can’t even fathom what the issue was in the first place. And you realise that you are changed. Fantastic!
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